Inspired by vintage newspaper advice columns, Signed With a Heart is The Poetry Cove's very own, exclusive poetry advice forum. Submit all of your burning poetry-related questions, general musings, or even submit your own poetry for critique! Moderators Rachel & Sophie will select your write-ins and lend a gentle listening ear as they provide their opinions and guidance on whatever is asked. Leave questions to your heart's content below, my loves.
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Sophie ❤️
Torture Poet who's scare to put themself out there
I have wrote poetry for many years and I remember writing what was my BEST work ever in 2018.
Over last few years,I've noticed a trend.
My poems either fall in two camps: Generic self help or life terrible.
I thought about putting myself out there,and I did.So in 2019 I posted poetry on Instagram and 2020 on Facebook.
For the record,I don't think my poetry falls onto Instagram,that was what poets were doing at the time and I follow the trend,Facebook was because i already had a following.Not alot,but still a following.Granted,they were instagram stories,but I was at least trying something new.Then I stop.For one,I didn't like the direction my poems were going(Instapoetry) and two,I honestly lost any attachment to art.I guess performing for mental health awareness,promote poetry on Facebook(a platform where I try to leave and end up coming back) only for nobody on my end to show up will destroy whatever love I did have at the time.
So now,its 2021,and I am afraid to start posting poetry because NOW,I don't think my work has any meaning since its either self help content or life terrible.I guess this is a sign that after poetry book is done,i may have to take a break from writing poems,since I don't think my work has anything behind it.Yet,I still chose to record something for poetry cove radio lol.At least I can edit and record my old poetry,as although it technically is still writing,unless if its a rewrite,I don't have to think about anything new per se.
Yes,chance of disrespect poetry is there and always a choice i will inevitably stop posting early on AGAIN since that has happen multiple times,however,REAL REASON I'm afraid to put myself out there because I can't either top what I did back then or reinvent my poetry to something I do enjoy.Just want to make this clear,since it's NOT about what others think or getting a specific follower count.If that is what anyone thinking.
Been saying I was going to do put my poetry out there for years and never FULLY pull trigger,perhaps this is the reason why,any advice on this,since I'm torn on whether or not to put myself out there(in spite of not enjoying content I've already written or continue to write)?
Panicked Poet seeks more advice
I have released 4 poetry books, the last coming out about 2 years ago maybe? Since then my style and preferred reading has changed drastically and am sad to say I’m no longer proud of those books. I have since pulled them from publication. What should I do with them now? Let them collect dust and never see the light of day, forget my insecurities, put them back in print and forget the ever existed?
Thanks
Hey dear, I want to suggest you something. I don't know on which platform you started sharing your poetry. But messaging others to get likes and to follow doesn't work. That all go to spam. You need to engage with them, show them support, like and comment on other's post. I am sure you will definitely get support in return. Please try to be in the community, it will help you a lot.
And 2nd most important thing don't say you are not good. It's due to a lack of confidence. Everybody needs time to improve, take your time don't lose confidence. Yes critiquing is needed, but it's best when someone else critiques it constructively and you learn from it to rectify your flaws. Just write from your heart. And I believe in the notion that, don't write poetry because you need to write it but write when you want to. You will surely shine. Best of Luck God bless you 🌹.
Dear Sophie,
I am sad. I have realised that I am not a good poet and it has broken my heart. In December I decided to start writing and sharing my poetry with the world, and promote my work and spend hours messaging people trying to get them to like and follow me and subscribe but nobody does. Should I give up for good? Nobody likes me or my work 😢 it’s not fair. Why won’t people make me popular?
My heart really really wants to try and self-publish my poetry... but I'm scared I won't be taken seriously, and it all feels so overwhelming. What do I do? My heart wants it so bad, but my head is telling me it isnt worth it
How often should I be writing poetry? I'm a working poet but I've only been able to write four poems in a whole year. Starting to panic I may have lost my mojo.
Should I use poetry to convince a girl to go out with me? I'm scared of spending the time and effort and being rejected... what do I do?